Who among us doesn’t remember ourselves as a child? It is at this age, from birth to graduation, that vampirism begins. Every person goes through this phase of development, but it cannot yet be called a disease. The child is pure, he is an Angel sent to us by God, and only we are responsible for the fact that he may develop the disease of vampirism.
While the child is helpless, he simply needs us to pay attention to him: to play and walk with him, to tell him fairy tales and sing songs, to teach him how to draw, build, craft, etc. Remember how your parents treated you, Did they constantly drive you away from you or did they patiently work with you?
A child in a family is the sacred duty of parents, especially the mother, to devote themselves to his upbringing, to give the child the warmth of his soul, to teach him to rejoice and love. But you can teach this only by loving your child, and this is precisely what children often lack. Quite often we see parental indifference and irritation. It is in this field that vampirism is born.
Childhood vampirism is a punishment for parents and adults. A child is an indicator of the soul of the family, a “litmus test” for the quality of the energies in which he lives and with which he comes into contact. It is known that a child is always drawn to a pure, bright and joyful person, but begins to be capricious in the presence of a bad person with a difficult character. And if your child annoys you all the time, admit that you are a difficult person, that you are always better off without him than with him, that he is like a stone, like a burden, crushing your soul.
This means that you are a vampire to your child, and not vice versa. Who will admit this? But from the outside you can see better how you treat your child, how you shout, scold, and beat him in front of everyone. And at this time your face becomes bestial, predatory, your voice barks, and a nervous tremor runs through your body. You are no longer a person. Remember this, because from the outside you can see better.
We must help the child explore the world, charge him with interest, captivate him personal example. If we don’t give a child our love, joy and knowledge, if we say, “Leave me alone, I’m tired of you, go play on your own,” then he becomes capricious, but as he grows up, he bickers, and as he grows up, he’s rude.
In these contradictions, we break down and splash out hatred and irritation on the child. Instead of pure energies, you threw the accumulated dirt of your soul onto him, and he calmed down, he recharged. But with what?
This is how a child lives, recharging himself at home, at school and on the street with the energy waste of adults and peers. He receives the contemptuous label “shithole,” “idiot,” “redneck,” etc.
He himself is already looking for the strength by which he is accustomed to living. He needs to break and destroy, swear and be rude, drink and smoke, and all this for show in order to cause obvious or hidden irritation of others in order to recharge. He doesn’t understand this; the instinct of self-survival operates here unconsciously in him.
And then all life will be subordinated to this animal instinct of self-preservation, most often with a primitive mind. It’s good if on his way he meets a teacher, friend or girlfriend who shows him the joy of life, love for his neighbor and for knowledge, if they open up the spiritual world to him, then he will be saved.
Childhood vampirism manifests itself through early bitterness towards plants and animals, towards peers and parents. Frequent insults inflicted on the child’s soul form a niche in it in which negative energy accumulates.
Now it has become fashionable to keep a dog in a city apartment. But do parents see their children hanging out with their “favorite” friend? If a child is not loved in the family, this is immediately evident in his relationship with the dog on the street. These actions of the child show an early manifestation of vampirism. And then the increasing number of cases of dog attacks on children becomes clear.
If not the parents, then who will take over moral education children? Kindergartens, schools, churches or colonies? Who? Perhaps only early Christian upbringing of a child can prevent the development of vampirism.
How can we evaluate a teacher who has many failing students? He does not like his work, he cannot captivate him with his subject, interest him and prove that his knowledge is the most important in a person’s life. Not to force, but to draw you into the world that you have built for yourself. If this is not the case, then the student unconsciously begins to throw the teacher out of balance.
Without receiving the joy of knowledge, these subtle and pure energies, the student shakes out at least some energy from the teacher. He unconsciously does not allow himself to be robbed and begins to vampirize from the teacher. And then another hidden meaning of the teachers’ “catchphrase” becomes clear: “Either I, or ...!”
A student's grades are an indicator of his attitude towards the teacher. If from a D to a C, then this student does not want you to teach him. You are disgusting to him, because there are no uninteresting subjects. Maybe that’s why in American schools only the student, the teacher and the parents know about the student’s grades. By telling everyone how your student studies, you thereby reveal your attitude towards him: are you a friend and helper to him or...
Education is a path of service. And therefore, childhood vampirism should be the first signal of trouble in a future citizen. If at home, in the family they don’t work with it, then this is your holy mission before the Motherland, before God.
By the age of twelve, a child can reason freely, defend his interests and views. He should have his own natural interest in life: sports, technology, art, nature, books, etc. But we see that nothing interests him, does not excite him, he does not want to make efforts for his spiritual and intellectual development.
His desires fit into only two terms: “give” and “I want.”
All your attempts to captivate your teenager into the world of spiritual joy are frustrated by the carnal: “What will I get out of this?” This is a fully formed vampire.
I have met adults with vampirism, and after a long investigation into the circumstances of their lives, I discovered that the cause of this condition was the school and even a specific teacher.
After all, some of our teachers are already in the habit of humiliating and insulting students in front of the class, peers, school and even parents. But I don’t want to be angry, but to put everything in its place, to say it directly and openly. Such teachers need to be driven away from children, from kindergartens, schools, technical colleges and universities, so as not to infect children with the vampirism virus.
By the age of fourteen, many children suffer from chronic vampirism. There is a great life ahead, but what kind of life? Woe to the family in which a vampire child grows up, but thrice woe to the family he creates for himself.
Under the term « energy vampirism» you need to understand the relationships between people in which life force is taken by force. “Don’t be nervous,” says the doctor. “Be calm,” says the psychologist, not understanding that there are people who deliberately provoke us into breakdowns and irritation, because this is the only way to take away our vitality.
These people are vampires, they draw out, shake out and suck our psychic energy in every way available to them. Vampirism is energy plunder. At the same time, the vampire always feels easy and good, but the donor, or the vampire’s victim, always remains “broken” and sick.
Esotericists divide energy vampires into solar and lunar. The energy of sun people and vampires is hot and dry, it is always aggressive. We say this cruel man, bloodsucker and sadist. They themselves attack the “victim”, provoke scandals and quarrels, causing mental and physical pain.
The energy of lunar vampire people is the opposite of solar. She is cold and wet. If the solar vampire is an energy bandit, then the lunar vampire is an energy thief, quiet and secretive. He always cries about his problems, pretending to be deaf and incomprehensible. This is boring. He does not swear, does not quarrel, does not prove, he whines and this takes us out of our emotional balance.
Energy vampires in the family
There are many subtle energetic connections in families that can be confused with vampirism. Therefore, let us clarify that a vampire loves only himself, he does not know how to love others and enjoy life. In a family, even lunar vampires are always aggressive and daily carry out an energy shake-up for the entire family or one of its members.
The first indicator of vampirism among spouses is JEALOUSY. Jealousy is not love, but vampires’ techniques to keep their victim in constant energetic (mental) tension and breakdown. Family dramas based on jealousy almost always lead to family breakdown. And while they are together, the vampire spouse, through jealousy, provokes the donor spouse for his energy supply.
It is very difficult for one of the spouses to live in constant tension and proof of their love and devotion. Jealousy is a disease of a deaf, blind and callous person; it is vampirism. The vampire does not see or hear the object of his love until he shakes him with an energy visor. And only after that can he confess his false feelings. It’s hard for a heart without love, it’s hard for a body without a heart, one might say, to paraphrase Homer.
Is it necessary to prove that love does not need proof, that in love one lives with one breath, that love is always afraid of offending its neighbor in some way, that true love does not suffer from doubts of fidelity. Yes, we need to prove it, because we live without knowing with whom, we humiliate ourselves and come up with excuses: if he is jealous, it means he loves. But in reality it turns out that he is proud, suspicious, distrustful and sick with vampirism.
The French philosopher Rene Descartes said: “Jealousy is a form of fear when you want to retain the possession of some good, considering yourself unworthy, and therefore suspicious and distrustful.”
When looking for a spouse, we often focus on our partner’s appearance or financial situation. This gives rise to imaginary love, which will definitely show the effect of vampirism. “Blind love” is always implicated in carnal passions, and then these passions will shake the soul. Jealousy is a vice, it is spiritual, intellectual and physical limitation. And therefore the soul suffers, the mind does not know what it is doing, and the body struggles in search of strength.
Very often in family relationships Mothers-in-law and mothers-in-law act as vampires, but not to their children, but to those whom their children chose as their spouses. True, daughters-in-law and sons-in-law are also not gifts. One wise man said that whoever got a good son-in-law gained a son, and whoever got a bad one lost a daughter.
One day, after a lecture, a young woman came up to me and said that she had only now realized that her mother-in-law was a pure vampire. I asked her not to say anything more, and I myself gave a picture of how her mother-in-law behaves in the family. I spoke at length and in detail, and the woman told me that she felt as if I had lived in their apartment for many years. I will briefly retell this story.
Every day, when you come home from work, your mother-in-law always meets you at the front door. She spits out words that make you “explode.” There are always a lot of reasons and reasons: I did something wrong, put it away, put it away. It doesn’t matter what, where or how, the main thing is to get hooked, turn on the trigger of your feelings, cause a surge of emotions and irritations. And she succeeds easily. At the same time, opening her mouth, she, smacking her lips, swallows your waste energy. All. The conflict is over by the end of the next day, when you come home from work again.
The whole evening and the next morning your mother-in-law no longer yells at you or swears. She can pet you and ask for forgiveness; she becomes quiet, like a mouse, and affectionate, like a cat. You forgive her everything, but you have lost your strength and health, you cannot pay attention to your children and husband, you go to bed early. It's hard to wake up in the morning.
And during the day, at your favorite job, in the joy of communication, you are again charged with pure human feelings, but this is only up to the threshold of your home. Your mother-in-law feels how you got off the bus, entered the entrance, entered the elevator... She is already at the door and is “sincerely glad” to meet you. You could give her your love and joy, but this is not the case, and then you become the only salvation of her life, but for this you need to be shaken, blown up...
If only once,” I continue, “in response to her words, bitter and offensive, you would say: “YES!” I AM THIS!” - and at the same time, proudly raising your head, you walked into the apartment, then your mother-in-law, having thrown out the rest of her strength and received nothing in return, would have collapsed right there, softening senselessly at the door.
Lord,” the woman tells me, “that happened once.” I didn’t respond to her rudeness, smiled and went into the room. I heard something fall, I turned around, and it was my mother-in-law lying at the door and not moving. I don't understand what happened, what happened. The children and husband ran out of the room: “What did you do to grandma?” I was dumbfounded. She began to assure them that she herself wouldn’t understand, that she didn’t even come close, she fell herself. The whole family began to bring her to her senses, but it didn’t work. They called an ambulance - to no avail. The ambulance took her to the hospital, and she stayed there for two months.
Here I again suggested that if she had another son or daughter, then after the hospital she should have gone to live with one of them, but never returned to you.
Yes,” the woman answered, “she really went to live with another son, with another daughter-in-law.”
So, I conclude, it turns out that there is a trick against scrap, as people say. And then, when the children grow up, the grandmother will shake the strength out of them. It’s always easier to do this with relatives and there are plenty of motives.
Another woman told me that only now, after the lecture, she understood why every year, when she goes to the dacha for the whole summer, her mother-in-law, having lost a donor, ends up in the hospital and lies there all summer. What is it like for the staff at the hospital? Sick relatives, whether at home or in the hospital, maintain their existence on petty grievances, irritating others.
Naturally, lying in bed, sometimes for years, they are forced to take power from those around them. And this is an indicator that they will have to lie for a long time, and medications and therapy will not have the desired effect on them. Apparently, hospitals need to create an entertainment industry to brighten up their drab existence. We need comfort, interiors, music, handicrafts. What about the house? And again the poems of Pushkin come to mind, who laments:
But, my God, what a bore
To sit with the patient day and night,
Without leaving a single step!
What low deceit
To amuse the half-dead,
Adjust his pillows
It's sad to bring medicine,
Sigh and think to yourself:
“When will the devil take you!”
And in those distant times they also didn’t know how to treat vampires..!
Turn on the “triple heater” of your soul for your sick relatives. It will displace and dissolve the heavy energies of the disease and fill the body with a new quality.
I knew a woman whose son and mother were vampires. The son is a substance abuser, and the mother has been bedridden for several years. Both shake her daily, but she still loves them, feels sorry for them and gives all of herself to serve them. Every three days, her mother makes her faint, but her love for her mother brings the woman back to life. Her son threatens to kill him every day, but she forgives him everything.
After the lecture, she wrote in her note: “I realized that I am a classic donor, thank you, you charged me with good energy and with your lecture distracted me from terrible thoughts. Without knowing it, you cut off my last hope. This means this is my destiny - a test and punishment for my son.
Now he lies in the hospital and curses me, but love and pity are much greater than my fear of him - much! And let him kill, but I love him! And I won’t go on vacation even for one day, because there is no one to leave my mother with, she is in terrible pain. I should be there to make her life easier.”
Yes, love makes miracles! But an even greater miracle is something else. If you sincerely and lovingly tell your sick relative who cannot get out of bed that it is you who are to blame for his illness, that it was you who brought him to the state in which he is now, if you can convince him of this and ask him forgiveness (and this is not difficult to do, because he already believes that you and those around him are to blame for this), then it is then, having BEGGED, having received his FORGIVENESS, that a Miracle occurs. Your bedridden relative begins to come to life. On the same day or the next, he will get out of bed on his own, begin to walk, eat, sing songs, etc.
Your life will change radically, but from now on you must become an altruist - live for others, completely devoting yourself to serving people, helping them. Forget about yourself, this is your cross, but this is a good cross, it will bring you spiritual happiness.
Only in this way will you burn the Karma of a relative transferred to you, extinguish your Karma, and the generational curse will stop.
Here is another example told by a woman in Perm, when I was giving a course of lectures there. It refers to the most inhumane type of family vampirism - energy marauding. He is cunning and cruel, he cannot even be called an animal, because animals do not suffer from a lack of energy, they live in harmony with nature. This is the story.
“Every morning, for many years, I hear from my mother, and she is already 77 years old, the same words: “Are you not dead yet?! When will you die?!” This is how my day begins. You can get used to this and not get irritated, but the mother, not receiving a response, falls to the floor and begins to bite her hands and scratch her face.
At the same time, she makes animal sounds, to which the neighbors come running. She shows them what I allegedly did to her. The neighbors know that I’m not like that, they feel sorry for me, and they are secretly and sometimes openly annoyed with my mother.
A few minutes later the mother gets up, as if nothing had happened. Her wounds are healing like those of a cat. For fifteen years she has been keeping me in suspense, saying that she will exchange the apartment, and all this time she is filing a lawsuit, but she herself does not appear, or she will do something wrong with the papers, she delays. Now she goes to various organizations and public bodies in Perm, says that I beat her, shows scratches and bites.
Once she managed to visit sixteen organizations with complaints about me in two days. And they believe her everywhere, and consider it their duty to call me for investigation. Constant phone calls from them do not give me peace, I am tired of this life. And they don’t even listen to my explanations, they shout: “How dare you! She’s a mother!”
And I realized that it was her fault that I already have a second disability group. The only thing that saves me is that I play music, write poetry, draw - this gives me strength back. I take a break from her in the summer, when she lives in the country.”
This is how insidious, evil and cruel family vampires are. God forbid you always have them next to you. From close ones the blows are stronger and hurt longer. One single extravagant married half can nullify wonderful impulses, acquired wisdom, directional position, and life itself.
But on the other hand, every cloud has a silver lining. From them, from vampires, we can learn to respond correctly to energy impulses that constantly arise in life around us. “I send you out as sheep among wolves: therefore be wise as serpents and innocent as doves,” says the Gospel. And until we understand this, we will fall into the trap of a deep energy conflict and crisis, we will suffer and get sick. And only through awareness and will will peace and joy come to us.
Family vampires live a painfully long time, not giving life to their household members. THEY OUTLIVE THEIR DONORS, AND WE WONDER WHY good people die before the bad ones. How many unfortunate destinies, families and talents were turned to dust because the cunning of vampires was not recognized and stopped in time. We didn't even know about their existence. But we create abstruse teachings or centers.
And finally, there is another type of family vampirism, but I have not encountered its gross forms. It belongs to the lunar manifestation and flows gently, only at times creating tense situations.
This type of vampirism arises among parents when their children get married. The fear or fear of remaining alone in old age pushes a parent, usually one of them, to make their children materially and financially dependent. Some people like it, and they are even happy from such care (for the time being), while others are irritated, they do not want to be dependent, they are burdened by the obsessiveness of their parents, and are constrained by petty care and reproaches on this basis.
Many people suffer not from a lack of strength and feelings, but from their excess. And if such people do not have a creative beginning where they could throw out these generally good energies for peaceful purposes, then they begin to suppress their loved one with them.
In an example it might look like this.
A woman really loves cleanliness and order, which in general is a noble quality - to keep the space in which you live clean and tidy. But there is always someone nearby: husband, children, relatives who disrupt the joyful world she creates. And all her dissatisfaction results in this.
Many women complained to me about their relatives, saying that they lived with vampires, and asked for advice on how to deal with them, how to wean them from vampirism. When clarifying behavior and situations, it turned out that there were no vampires in her family, that she herself was limited in the criteria for assessing what was happening around. That it is she who is the first to lash out at her loved ones over the slightest speck or misplaced item.
She can only be called a vampire conditionally, but if she does not expand the scope of her feelings, then such a complex on one thing will undoubtedly give rise to vampirism. And hence the breakdowns over the slightest trifles. This also applies to men equally.
Causes of tension in family life, generated by vampirism, lie in other aspects.
We already know that around the human body, on its aura, negative clots of energy are retained. We collected them at work, on the street, in public places, and when you get home, it’s best to take a shower. They wash off easily. Otherwise, these energies will be felt by your family members as something cold and sticky, heavy and oppressive coming from you. Have you noticed that when one of the family members comes home, a difficult and nervous situation immediately arises. These energies oppress everyone until an energetic discharge occurs called “everyone equally.”
Or this: five days a week your husband is a normal person, but on Saturdays and Sundays it’s as if a demon possesses him. And so on for many years in a row. This means that five days a week he shakes everyone at work, and on weekends he is charged with your energy. You can say that you are lucky, and find a way not to communicate with him these days, since there is no love between you, this is your problem.
No matter how much the thread twists, the end will still come, which is why most often quarrels and tragedies occur in these families.
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There is another type of family vampirism, which arises in marital relationships shortly after marriage or the birth of the first child. Here both men and women show a special look mental state, which can be expressed in a simple and concise word - dissatisfaction.
Most often, a woman suffers from this, and any suffering deprives her of strength and deprives her of energy. Being at home or at work all day, she is dissatisfied with her husband and constantly tells something bad about him. Remember your friends or relatives who wash their husbands’ bones. By doing this they undermine their strength. When a husband comes home from work, he does not feel from his wife that force that would pull, magnetize, that would make him want to hug and kiss.
If this is not the case, he meets a cold and soulless wife, and therefore at least a small scandal or silent irritation will certainly arise between them. And it will be provoked by an empty soul, one that has already shaken itself out. Normal spouses do not quarrel over trifles; they save their energy for a bigger scandal. Oh, what am I saying? Normal spouses always say only good things about each other to everyone. This creates a field of joy and love, which is what I wish for you. Love covers a multitude of sins.
There is no escape from the topic of family vampirism. You can change your job, don’t let vampire neighbors in, avoid irritating people in public places.
But at home, in the family, when you are dependent and connected not by love, but by circumstances, vampirism blooms and progresses on this basis. It is the vampire who will create and dictate the conditions, tone and rhythm for the whole family. Once charged, the vampire begins to sing songs, the melody of which contains solemn sounds.
This is what Yuri K. wrote to me in Saratov after the lecture.
"This is exactly what I needed to understand the truth about my illness. The fact is that I fell under the influence of a vampire. This happened a long time ago, in 1978, and continues to this day. I was a very cheerful and healthy person , but as soon as my parents changed their apartment and we began to live with my grandparents, my health began to deteriorate, and now I am a disabled person of the second group.
On the contrary, if my grandmother was in the hospital every year until 1978, with a heart condition and terrible asthma, then after we moved in together, she never spent time in the hospital, she no longer remembers asthma, she even began to read without glasses. My grandmother is a pronounced lunar vampire, and all the signs you described apply to her. And I’m writing because I hope to find out from you when this hell will end.”
In one of her letters from Irkutsk, a woman spoke about her 75-year-old mother.
“It’s very difficult for me to live with her. Outwardly she looks very healthy and energetic, but after she throws out a hail of insults and reproaches on me. After reading your book, I realized that this is energy vampirism. Most of all I got it from my mother when I I stayed late after work. But my work schedule changed, and I started coming home two hours later.
The first days I found my mother half dead. She demanded that I return to my previous routine and work schedule, but, fortunately, this is impossible to do. I don’t know how I withstood my mother’s psychic attacks these days, but a miracle happened!
When I returned after work one day, I didn’t find my mother at home. I began to worry about her. Where could she go with sore legs and on crutches? Everything turned out to be simple. She began riding public transport during evening rush hours. She came home cheerful and energetic. Her face was flushed. But the most amazing thing is that she stopped making any claims against me.
Rain or heat, snow and frost, nothing could keep her at home anymore. It turns out that she was simply forced to switch to other people. Neighbors told me that she somehow gets on a crowded bus, travels a few stops and gets off. And this always happens with swearing and insulting passengers.
At the stop, she waits for the next bus, which is sure to be crowded, and begins to board it again, cursing. And so every day. After reading your book, I realized that my mother was engaged in, or even sick with, classical vampirism. Help, tell me what can be done to treat her."
This is why I am writing this book, so that everyone can find in it answers to their questions about treatment and protection from vampires. Often in families where parents are vampires, children grow up the same. When such parents, day after day, year after year, over the slightest trifle or reason, lash out at their child, they are raising a vampire for themselves. Such parents not only forbid the child something, but always do it harshly and rudely, with irritation and hatred: don’t climb, don’t take, don’t jump, don’t scream, sit quietly, etc.
At the same time, they humiliate and call the child names. And they do not know that the time will come when “the cat will shed the tears of a mouse.” When such a child grows up, he himself becomes a vampire and shakes his parents. How many families so sick with vampirism have I seen, how many unhappy parents tried to find in me an answer, protection and salvation from their sadistic son.
The message of the Holy Apostle Paul says: “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, so that they do not lose heart.” When will we understand that “everything returns to normal” and that everyone will get back what they sow around themselves?!
I have seen many fearful and downtrodden children who, growing up on the street, in company, hone the “skill” of taking revenge on parents, teachers and other adults, in contact with whom they always received physical and spiritual slaps in the face. Parents who have not given their child either love or affection should not expect a happy old age; their children will remain indifferent to them.
And if in childhood your child suffered almost daily beatings and insults from you, know that the same awaits you in old age. This is your Karma - the law of retribution. On this basis, many karmic diseases appear, without understanding and eliminating the causes of which diseases cannot be cured. All that remains for you is humility and repentance, and I implore you, remember this!
One more circumstance is characteristic: lunar vampires in a family are content with the energy of one family member, as a rule, the weakest and most defenseless. Solar vampires shake the whole family. Here is one of the typical letters on this topic.
"I read your book and was once again convinced that I really had to live with two vampires. So “lucky”! One of them is my father. Although it’s not good to talk about it, he is an extremely unpleasant person. Not only I don’t love him, but neither do my mother, sister, all my relatives and even just acquaintances.
I remember from childhood how he bullied the three of us, brought us to tears, and then calmed down and seemed to give in. At any time of the day, he turned on the TV loudly at the same time as the radio, turned on the lights in all the rooms, and in the kitchen the dishes began to rattle loudly. He still does all this.
At night he can call anyone he knows and still talk loudly. He says that he doesn’t hear well, and when he doesn’t need something, he will definitely hear it. Naturally, with all his behavior he brought everyone to a state of shaking. And God forbid I say anything to him. He started yelling and beating his mother. My sister and I are in tears, but at least he cares. “It’s all your mother’s fault,” is his favorite phrase.
When he’s at home, everyone walks around in tension and once again you don’t want to leave the room. And if he goes in there himself, then you start shaking all over - he’s such an unpleasant person. He doesn't like animals. Now I have a dog, we live separately from our parents. When I come with her to my parents, and my father is not at home, the dog is calm. As soon as he puts the key in the keyhole, the dog begins to bark hysterically, which is difficult to stop. Several times the dog bit his father.
Negative energy reigns at home, although the rooms have been blessed. Probably no one has as many cockroaches as we do. It's just a disaster. We have already tried many remedies, but the results are disastrous. In summer, homemade flowers bloom on the balcony. Mom wants them to bloom in the apartment too. But when you bring them from the balcony, after a while the flowers begin to die. Oddly enough, loaches grow very well.
Our mother is constantly sick. Over the past few years, I have suddenly aged. I no longer have the strength to live next to my husband, and we no longer have the strength to live next to our father. If you write about all his dirty tricks, there simply won’t be enough paper. From time to time he accuses one of us of stealing something from him. And it literally drives him into hysterics because of this.
Until I was eighteen, I lived with my parents. And here is “happiness”! My grandparents (my mother’s parents) received a two-room apartment and really wanted me to live with them. I was so glad that I would see my father less often, that my profession - a children's nurse - would receive more strength for work. After some time, my joy darkened. Grandma “took hold” of me. My grandfather was a calm man, I respected him (may he rest in heaven).
I am by nature cheerful, but calm. So my grandmother didn’t like everything about me. She was looking only for the bad, she simply didn’t want to see the good. I couldn’t come home late, I couldn’t shower, I couldn’t do laundry every weekend. You cannot iron clothes, otherwise the iron will burn. You can’t talk on the phone for a long time, and even laugh loudly. You should have seen her face at that moment when I lash out at her. How much happiness is in her eyes, how much balm is poured onto her heart. And so every day.
In six years of living with my grandmother, I lost six kilograms. I developed hypotension, and my grandmother suffers from hypertension. I was constantly depressed. I didn't want to go home to this hell. I often found myself walking slowly from the bus stop to my house, even though it was only a two-minute walk.
And another interesting thing. The grandfather was so thin, and towards the end of his life, weak, that he looked like a skinny skeleton. And the grandmother is still alive, although the grandfather is older. When my grandfather died, I moved out of their apartment. It was beyond my power to be alone with her."
Alexander Astrogor, from the book "Energy Vampirism"
Children and energy vampirism
Little children are always full of energy. They jump, run, and have fun. They just radiate energy. It sprays like a fountain, which allows you to be active both physically and creatively. This energy fountain is noticeable to everyone around and it is quite possible that someone will want to drink from this fountain... We will talk about energy vampirism.
During childhood, the child’s aura is not fully formed, and he is under the energetic protection of his parents, primarily his mother. This protection lasts until the child has formed his own biofield. It is formed during puberty. And until this moment, you need to ensure that the child does not become the object of an energy attack. Namely, children often become victims of attacks by energy vampires due to their low security and lack of life experience.
Energy vampires in the yard
Who can tap into the energy of our children? In any case, this is a person with a lack of love in his soul. Most often, older people are vampires. They have already used up their natural energy reserves, and if they are not true believers and do not engage in spiritual practices, then they have nowhere to get energy except from other people. Children are just a tasty morsel for them. You can easily find fault with them. They have fun all the time, make noise, and disturb others. Therefore, there are plenty of reasons. The vampire approaches the child and begins to scold him, scold him, pacify him, and call him to order. After this, the vampire leaves peacefully, and the child no longer wants to have fun, play and jump. There was an outflow of energy from the donor to the vampire. The vampire feels relief, and the donor feels weak and weak. The behavior of children is only a reason for an energy attack, and the goal of a vampire is to receive a dose of energy. If you are nearby, you need to take the child aside without entering into conflict with the vampire. If your child walks alone, then he needs to be taught to play so that he does not disturb others. Of course, in practice this is difficult to achieve. Therefore, if you notice that the same person is picking on your child, then warn your child to stay away from him and not enter into arguments with the vampire. Distance is the best prevention of energy vampirism.
Energy vampires at school
Another typical place where your children may be subject to energy attack is school. Some teachers may, due to lack of energy, feed off the energy of students. The principle of its action is the same - aggression. In addition to the fact that the child is subject to energy exhaustion, which in itself can lead to illness, insults and indignation from the teacher can also traumatize the child’s psyche. In childhood, the basic principles of a worldview are laid down, and if you are taught that a child is a loser, lazy, or incompetent, this can be deposited in his subconscious and he can really become what they are trying to imagine him to be. If a vampire teacher appears in your child’s class, then measures should be taken to ensure that he is removed from working with children for any reason. There is no need to be too complex about methods of dealing with such people, because they destroy the psyche and fate of children, and the fate of dozens of people is more important than pity for one person. Need to be guided cosmic laws, and not conventional moral norms. Moreover, by allowing a vampire to consume other people's energy, we are already corrupting his soul. And for this we are already responsible. The policy of appeasement has never led to good things.
Home vampirism
And finally, the most dangerous type of vampirism is family vampirism. The appearance of a vampire in a family indicates a lack of love. A husband and wife, after draining each other's energy during scandals, can switch to the child. Instead of giving him their love, parents inflict wounds on the child’s soul with scandals and abuse. Evil begets evil. Having received negativity from parents, the child also wants to get rid of it. He goes out into the street and looks for a “victim” to give negative energy, which I received from loved ones. The release of negativity can manifest itself in cruelty to animals and peers, rudeness to others and any other hooligan act. Thus, often the reason for children’s bad behavior lies in the wrong attitude of adults towards them. They are just victims of circumstances.
And if parents want their children to grow up successful, talented, with a correct worldview and a strong psyche, then instead of scolding, they should encourage them to behave correctly and encourage them in case of failure. This way, the child will not develop an inferiority complex if he fails, and he will be able to overcome his shortcomings, and in the future he will actively manifest himself in one area or another. What he received from his parents in childhood determines what he will bring to people in life. adult life. Therefore, the task of parents is to cultivate noble qualities in the child - good nature, understanding, unity, selflessness and compassion.
The fate of a child is shaped primarily by parents, as well as educators, educators and surrounding people. How he will do, think, treat others depends on us. Therefore, parents and teachers have a huge responsibility for the future generation. They can lay the foundation like happy life her child, and unhappy. Therefore, I urge everyone to treat children not as objects for manipulation and manifestation of power, but as free people who have been entrusted to us so that we instill in them only the best that is in ourselves.
© Roman Osharin
Vampirism in children
Even at work you don’t get as tired as you do with a child. It feels like he is feeding on your energy. He teases you with his whining and provokes you to drain all your strength.
Each person has his own unique character traits, desires and abilities. A set of such properties is called a vector. There are eight vectors in total.
Surely you have noticed how one child is different from another. Even twins and twins are different from each other. If one of them prefers quiet games, where you can take your time and sit quietly, then the second one finds such a game boring. He likes to be in motion: run, jump, tumble.
And if one of the children is calm and silent, likes to be in silence and solitude, then the other, on the contrary, is sociable and emotional. Literally blossoms when in the spotlight
A child with a visual vector has a subtle mental organization. Every child cries and laughs, and the visual child does this with special emotionality. His ability to be happy, afraid, and upset is much greater than that of others. Therefore, he experiences everything many times more intensely.
They say about these: “Makes a mountain out of a molehill”. Sudden mood swings, emotional swings, hysterics - all this is characteristic of the owner of the visual vector, who is in a state of fear. He is also a rare dreamer - the monsters under the bed will not let him sleep, but also all family members.
Every owner of a visual vector needs strong emotions. They can receive them in two ways: by suffering or enjoying life.
With hysterics, the little spectator tries to attract attention and get positive emotions, mother's love, which he so needs. When mom strengthens the emotional connection with him, he feels protected. The need to gain missing feelings with hysterics goes away.
It is also important to develop his innate mental properties - kindness, fantasy and imagination, and awaken feelings of empathy.
How does this happen? Through contemplating the beauty of the world around us, reading good books, watching cartoons in which the child learns to sympathize with the characters. When a little viewer is taught to show empathy for people, to think about other people’s feelings, then in adult life he will not feel inner emptiness, a feeling of loneliness and will forget about fears.
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An energy vampire - against his will in order to replenish his vital energy reserves.
A natural question arises: is a person born an energy vampire or for one reason or another becomes one?
Occasionally, energy vampirism is congenital, but most often the origins of this phenomenon must be sought in early childhood. A little man can be compared to a blank sheet of paper on which you can write anything. This fully applies to his biofield. In terms of energy small child very sensitive and very vulnerable. The influence of the energy of the people around the child on his biofield is difficult to overestimate. It is especially worth emphasizing the influence of the mother. After all, the mother protects and nourishes the baby with her energy, with her mere presence. It has a great influence on the child’s biofield. Any negative emotions that arise in the people around him hit the child’s biofield and weaken his energy. Moreover, it is not at all necessary that the negative be expressed out loud. The child feels even unspoken negativity and may react with crying, whims, restless sleep, poor health, and even a rise in temperature. It has been noted that in problem families children get sick more often and more seriously than in friendly families where parents love each other.
And also, according to my own observations, one of the factors contributing to the fact that a child begins to become a vampire is the lack of regular walks. After all, man is designed in such a way that the sun, air, trees, and water increase his energy. Nature is a natural battery for humans. If you walk with your child little or not regularly, but from time to time, he is forced to recharge from the people around him and over time gets used to this method of recharging.
If there are constant conflicts and scandals in the family, if the baby does not feel loved and protected, his energy field will constantly receive breakdowns. Every child needs affection, love and care. If the baby gets it to the fullest, everything is fine. But if for one reason or another he is bypassed with love and care, he will strive to attract attention to himself in any way, even if this attention will be with a minus sign: he will be capricious, beg, be rude, and argue. That is, with his bad behavior he will provoke the adults around him - parents, educators, teachers - to release energy - outbursts of anger, irritation, aggression, fear or guilt. Erma Bombeck very subtly noted:
“A child needs your love most just when he deserves it least.”
With a high degree of probability, such a child, having matured, will continue to receive energy from others in the same way, that is, he will grow up to be an energy vampire.
There is another extreme in education - excessive care, when the child, motivating
this is with care and love, they constantly control him, make all decisions for him, meddle in all his affairs, in a word, they raise him, who, even having matured “according to his passport,” continues to remain a child. But how can he grow up if he was not taught to be independent, if he was not given the opportunity to make independent decisions and be responsible for his mistakes? He does not know how to overcome the difficulties that arise, since his parents took upon themselves the solution to all problems. He is used to only taking and demands more and more attention and care from those around him.
Years pass... Parents are not getting any younger... And the child, instead of becoming a help to take care of his aging parents, continues to demand... And then the complaints begin: “I gave everything to him, dedicated my whole life, but he is so ungrateful!”
But how, pray tell, can one thank HIM if he is used to only taking, if HIM has not been taught to be independent? How can he take care of someone if he hasn't been taught how to live without his parents?
Such relationships in the family lead to the child becoming a fully formed energy vampire. The defiant behavior of teenagers who use foul language, are rude, drink, and are cruel to others, be it a peer, an adult, or an animal, is a clear manifestation of vampirism. According to psychologists' studies, about 90% of rapists and murderers in childhood animals were constantly abused. And one more symptom of vampirism at this age is that a teenager has no interests, does not develop intellectually and spiritually. The main words in his vocabulary are “give” and “I want.”
At the beginning of the article it was said that in some cases energy vampirism is congenital. If parents notice the makings of an energy vampire in their child, they can be advised to engage the child in activities that require concentration: reading, drawing, modeling, music, putting together puzzles or construction sets, enrolling in a sports section or dance club. Moreover, it is to captivate, not force. All of the above activities contribute to the child’s positive attitude, and if what we planned turns out, wild joy arises - an emotion that perfectly increases the baby’s energy. And, of course, the child will be happy and comfortable if you do all this with him from time to time, if he feels your interest in his affairs..
And finally, I want to wish you: love and respect your children, give them care and attention, because little people need all this like air.
